How To Flirt With Girls – 3 Exact Examples We Can Use Today
We teach on our pua training courses that flirting with women right from the outset communicates a lot of attractive qualities such as confidence, poise and a general understanding of the dating process.
Yet for some reason we find it extremely difficult to have fun with attractive girls, it’s almost like we are scared of doing something wrong; simply put we are afraid to fail.
I’ve found that having some guiding principles gives us the confidence to break through our comfort zone and try something new. So here are my three favourite ways to engage women in conversation.
How To Flirt With Girls #1: The Nickname
We explain on our daygame courses that one really effective way to flirt with a girl is to give her a fun nickname; it could be based on her style, her accent or even her job.
For example if she is wearing sparkly red shoes, we could call her ‘Dorothy’ from The Wizard of Oz; if she is walking her dog, we could call her “Girl with the cool dog”.
The aim is to make her nickname fun, raise a smile and create that all important energetic vibe right from the get-go.
How To Flirt With Girls #2: The Amazing Introduction
We teach on our pick up artist courses that introducing a girl to our friends and misinterpreting her details in a comical manner is a brilliant way of flirting with women.
So, if her name is Christie and she’s a contemporary dancer from London we can introduce her as “Chelsea, who is a trainee dancer from Essex”.
I’ve found that the more creative and fun we can be with the introduction, the more energy and flirting we ignite into our conversation.
How To Flirt With Girls #3: Eye Contact
I’ve discovered that the easiest way to flirt with a new girl is to comment on her eye contact directly after we have asked her a question, for example:
“What is it about dancing that you like?”
To answer this question most people will break eye contact and look away to access a different part of their brain. Whenever a girl does this, I’ll reply with something like:
“I asked you why you liked dancing, I didn’t say look over there and pull a silly face.”
Using this principle I’ll then just go with the flow of the conversation which has led me to have some amazing interactions, like challenging girls to answer my next 5 questions without looking away.
We teach on our dating coach courses that having three main principles “in the locker” serves to help us flirt with girls even when we’re feeling a little bit tired, anxious or overwhelmed.
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