How To Get Your Girlfriend Back In Three Easy Steps
A question that I’m posed time and time again during or daygame courses is how to get your girlfriend back. There is no doubt that this can be a tricky situation. Whilst our emotions are running high we need to remain composed and look at the situation in exactly the same way we would when we first meet a girl that we like.
So whether we have been dating her for several weeks, several months or even several years the strategy is the same. Simply put, we should demonstrate the reasons why she found us attractive in the first place and as a result she will begin to feel attracted to us again.
How To Get Your Girlfriend Back #1: Move On And Become Unavailable
Before we do anything at all we must to let the dust settle. We should to fight the urge to get in touch with her and that means no calling, no texting and definitely no turning up in the middle of the night to serenade her beneath her bedroom window.
We need to take some time to reflect and let the emotions of the situation subside. In the mean time we should look to get our life back, get some hobbies and spend our time focusing on ourselves.
Remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder and as humans we always want the things that we can’t have. On our pick up artist courses we teach that if we are unavailable as a man, then naturally we become more attractive as a man.
How To Get Your Girlfriend Back #2: Reinitiate Contact With Her
Find a legitimate reason for getting back in touch with her which could be to say happy birthday, wish her good luck in her new job or to tell her about some post which has been delivered.
Once we have established contact, we can follow the same pua text game strategy that we use when sending messages to a girl we have just met. Reinitiating contact does NOT mean asking her how she is, apologising for how we (probably) messed up or suggesting that we should get back together.
Send her interesting messages that convey all the characteristics she liked about us. Do not beg her, plead her or try to convince her as this will have the opposite effect to what we want, and be prepared for her to take some time to text back.
How To Get Your Girlfriend Back #3: Meet Her Again In Person
When we meet her again for the first time, we need to keep it fun and not talk about anything serious. We need to treat it like a first date and make her realise why she was attracted to us when we first met. Don’t mention anything about the reason why we broke up and tell her that it’s nice that you can remain friends.
My advice as a dating coach is that this really is the time to step up as a man and to lead the interaction the way that we want it to go, we must try to remain strong and keep the interaction positive. If we can have the strength to do that, then from my experiences this is likely to give us the best possible chance of getting back with her.
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