How To Start A Conversation With A Girl – 3 Powerful Ways To Use Today

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl – 3 Powerful Ways To Use Today

Written by the Social Attraction Team

In this article I’m going to highlight three powerful ways that we can use to learn how to start a conversation with a girl who we find attractive.  The following article also contains three video’s of Gary Gunn demonstrating how to put these principles into practice.

We teach on our pick up artist courses that having a solid repertoire of different ways to start conversations with women is so important because it means we can approach girls we like at anytime anywhere.

The confidence gained from having this skill set offers us a great opportunity to make an impactful first impression with women.

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl #1: Camera

We teach on our daygame courses that we don’t need to come up with a million and one different ways to start a conversation with women.  It’s more important that we have one solid method that we can employ without giving it any thought when opportunities present themselves.

In the following video Gary explains how we can use the camera on our phone when we are first learning how to to start a conversation with a girl.  This method can be used in pretty well every single scenario from meeting women during the day through to talking to them in bars and nightclubs.

How to Start A Conversation With a Girl – The Camera Opener

As we can see in the footage above we can also use this method to move a girl away from her group and flirt with her at the same time.  This method of starting a conversation with women is also rejection proof so offers us a great way to overcome any approach anxiety that we may feel around attractive women.

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl #2: Direct

One of the most powerful ways that we can learn how to start a conversation with a girl is to pay her a direct compliment.  From my experience it takes a great deal of confidence to be able to compliment women when starting a new conversation.

In the next video Gary demonstrates exactly how we can compliment girls in the best possible way to make them feel really good about themselves.  When we watch the video it’s important to focus on how we can get into a positive state before we approach women so that we can make a meaningful first impression.

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl – The Direct Compliment

On our dating coach courses we focus on making sure that we maintain strong and prolonged eye contact with girls when we are paying them compliments.  The more tension we can create with our eyes, the more women are going to feel attracted to us in conversation.

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl #3: Challenges

Using fun challenges is something that we use all the time on our pua training courses. They are a great way to instantly energise ourselves whilst also taking our focus away from any approach anxiety that we might be feeling.

Challenges are also a fantastic tool for generating loads of energy in our group and always get loads of attention in whatever bar or club we may be in at the time. Whenever we play any of the following games we tend to find that women start approaching us to join in with the fun.

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl – Using Fun Challenges

As we can see in the footage above by adding a specific challenge with a time limit all of a sudden we are able to focus our minds at the task at hand.  This also allows us to enter into a fun state, especially if we can come up with some exciting new challenges to test ourselves.

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How To Start A Conversation With A Girl – 3 Powerful Ways To Use Today

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl – 3 Powerful Ways To Use Today

Written by the Social Attraction Team

In this article I’m going to highlight three powerful ways that we can use to learn how to start a conversation with a girl who we find attractive.  The following article also contains three video’s of Gary Gunn demonstrating how to put these principles into practice.

We teach on our pick up artist courses that having a solid repertoire of different ways to start conversations with women is so important because it means we can approach girls we like at anytime anywhere.

The confidence gained from having this skill set offers us a great opportunity to make an impactful first impression with women.

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl #1: Camera

We teach on our daygame courses that we don’t need to come up with a million and one different ways to start a conversation with women.  It’s more important that we have one solid method that we can employ without giving it any thought when opportunities present themselves.

In the following video Gary explains how we can use the camera on our phone when we are first learning how to to start a conversation with a girl.  This method can be used in pretty well every single scenario from meeting women during the day through to talking to them in bars and nightclubs.

How to Start A Conversation With a Girl – The Camera Opener

As we can see in the footage above we can also use this method to move a girl away from her group and flirt with her at the same time.  This method of starting a conversation with women is also rejection proof so offers us a great way to overcome any approach anxiety that we may feel around attractive women.

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl #2: Direct

One of the most powerful ways that we can learn how to start a conversation with a girl is to pay her a direct compliment.  From my experience it takes a great deal of confidence to be able to compliment women when starting a new conversation.

In the next video Gary demonstrates exactly how we can compliment girls in the best possible way to make them feel really good about themselves.  When we watch the video it’s important to focus on how we can get into a positive state before we approach women so that we can make a meaningful first impression.

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl – The Direct Compliment

On our dating coach courses we focus on making sure that we maintain strong and prolonged eye contact with girls when we are paying them compliments.  The more tension we can create with our eyes, the more women are going to feel attracted to us in conversation.

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl #3: Challenges

Using fun challenges is something that we use all the time on our pua training courses. They are a great way to instantly energise ourselves whilst also taking our focus away from any approach anxiety that we might be feeling.

Challenges are also a fantastic tool for generating loads of energy in our group and always get loads of attention in whatever bar or club we may be in at the time. Whenever we play any of the following games we tend to find that women start approaching us to join in with the fun.

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl – Using Fun Challenges

As we can see in the footage above by adding a specific challenge with a time limit all of a sudden we are able to focus our minds at the task at hand.  This also allows us to enter into a fun state, especially if we can come up with some exciting new challenges to test ourselves.

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