What Is Attraction? With A Simple Diagram
If we want to learn how to attract women into our lives then the first step we MUST take is to understand exactly what attraction is.
“The very essence of instinct is that it’s followed independently of reason.” Charles Darwin
Once we grasp that attraction is indeed instinctual, we can then begin to identify exactly what types of emotions can set off these impulses in women.
Over time, I have found it useful to imagine the emotion of attraction like a heart rate monitor where we have a flat line, a positive emotional spike and a negative emotional spike. Once we get the blend of sensations just right, we automatically become desirable to women.
What Is Attraction #1: The Flat Line
On our daygame courses we teach that an emotional flat line is when we are speaking with women and there is no emotional response during the conversation; or in other words it becomes a boring and mundane interaction.
Many of us find it powerful to remember the analogy of a flat line whist conversing with women, and as soon as we feel the conversation hits a flat line to remember to quickly add in some positive or negative emotional spikes.
What Is Attraction #2: A Positive Emotion Spike
A positive emotional spike is when we make a woman feel better about herself, and the easiest way to give this spike is to pay her a genuine compliment. On our pick up artist courses we teach that the more specific we can make the compliment the better, as this helps us to give women a solid emotional response.
If we spend too much time giving women positive emotional spikes then we will be regarded as a nice guy and eventually fall into her friend zone category.
What Is Attraction #3: A Negative Emotional Spike
A negative emotional spike is when we become challenging to women by flirting with her, asking her challenging questions and simply by saying no.
If we spend too much time giving women negative emotional spikes then we will be regarded as rude and obnoxious and not likeable long term.
What Is Attraction #4: The Perfect Blend
On our dating coach courses we teach that if we can merge the flat line with the right blend of positive and negative emotional spikes that this sparks off the raw attraction instinct in women.
It’s important to remember that the emotion of attraction is triggered in women during the first 2-5 minutes of meeting us for the very first time.
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