The Best Places To Meet Women | An Expert’s Guide (Updated 2021)

The Best Places To Meet Women | An Expert’s Guide (Updated 2021)

Written by dating coach for men Gary Gunn - Founder of Social Attraction

In this article you will discover the best places to meet women. I have tailored this feature to locations where you can go by yourself to approach, engage and go on instant-dates with women.

In my following blueprint you will learn:

  • The best locations to meet women (in any city)
  • Where to meet foreign women (guaranteed)
  • The top places to meet women (for free)

I have also included some tips and advice on how to approach and start conversations with women during the day.

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The best places to meet women in cities?

The best place to meet single women in cites is to find the top Instagram photo locations.

Since Instagram has become a craze all around the world women flock to these locations to take pictures.

Therefore in these areas, you will find women from all over the globe drinking coffee, eating food and taking photos.

Instagram hotspots

For example here are the top three Instagram photo hotspots in London:

  • Tower Bridge

You can go on either side of Tower bridge and you will find there are always tourists taking photos with the amazing backdrops there, which makes it easy to start a conversation.

  • View from the Shard

If you go to the top of the Shard you will meet lots of different people who are on holiday or touring. Again, it is an easy location to initiate conversations with women.

  • Piccadilly Circus

Passing by Piccadilly Circus at any time in the year there are always people taking photos even in rain or freezing temperatures.

Approaching women

In my experience, it is one thing to know where to meet women and another having the courage to start a conversation.

Almost all men have anxiety over approaching and engaging attractive women in conversation.

To help you to approach women in these locations I have created the following infographic guide for you. You can also read my approach anxiety article to learn more about how to tackle this issue.

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The best places to meet women for free?

The best places to meet women for free in London are art galleries, museums and historical buildings.

Places of culture attract women from all over the globe as well as students and women on day trips.

So you will find a lot of single women; and if you know the areas, this presents the perfect opportunity to go on some instant-dates.

Art galleries

My personal favourite art-gallery is the Tate Modern Art Gallery. This is a wonderful gallery right in the heart of London. Irrespective of the amazing artwork, it is worth visiting as the building is colossal and unique.

You will find plenty of opportunities to meet women of different nationalities as well as many chances to start conversations in the gallery, outside the gallery or in the foyer where people tend to congregate.

Additionally, on the 10th floor of the Blavatnik building, there is a viewing platform that overlooks all of London. This is frequented by many girls who go there to have their photos taken with the awesome backdrop of London and the Thames river.

Free gallery tours

Going on free gallery tours in the Tate Modern or any gallery in the world is a great idea.

There are so many opportunities to meet women on the tour and also to refine your conversation skills.

Imagine after the tour you meet a girl outside; you are now equipped to talk about the artwork in the gallery (which if you do not know is highly alluring to cultured women).

First date location

If you meet a girl in the vicinity of the art gallery you can also go on an instant-date together to one of the tours.

This is one of the best first dates that you can go on with women because you are:

  • Doing something cultural
  • Demonstrating intelligence
  • Sharing a memorable experience together

Take a look at my infographic underneath to gain some other great first date tips that will help make any date dynamic and fun. You can also read my first date tips article to learn more about dating strategies.

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The best places to meet women during the day?

The best places to meet women during the day are city squares where people tend to spend time hanging out and soaking up the atmosphere.

A great example of a city square is Trafalgar Square in London. Trafalgar Square is one of the most bustling locations in London that draws a multitude of people.

There are always women who take their photos outside and then go into the National Gallery.

City squares

When the sun is out city squares are great places to meet women as the vibe is awesome. There are buskers and street performers contributing to a dynamic and sociable mood, which makes it an ideal place to start conversations with women.

I recall coaching a 28-year-old client of mine three years ago. He was amazing at meeting women in the evening and in social environments, yet he had never approached a girl during the day. For me this was an easy fix: I took him to Trafalgar square and taught him to ask girls to take a photo of him – which is an easy way to start a conversation with any woman. I then instructed him on a few simple strategies to keep the conversation flowing naturally. From this simple starting point, he was able to go on three coffee dates in a row to the Cafe Nero opposite Trafalgar square.

To give you more ways to approach women during the day I have created the infographic guide below. You can also read my how to approach women article where I outline how to implement each approach.

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The best places to meet foreign women?

The best place to meet foreign women is by taking a city tour.

In most European cities a lot of the tours are free. You simply donate what you want at the end.

In London, there is an abundance of tours to choose from including walking, open bus tours and ghost tours.

City tours

In addition to absorbing the culture of the area, you will find that many female tourists take part.

Soaking up the information from the tour offers you other advantages as you can take a woman on a first or second date to the same location with yourself acting as the tour guide.

Being articulate and knowledgable in this way conveys attractive qualities to women.

Social opportunities

Additionally, once you have acquired the information from the tour, you can use it on a date or when you meet more people. This again adds to your conversation skills and makes you a more interesting and attractive man.

As well as being a great opportunity to meet women, an extra bonus of a city tour is that the local guy or the girl hosting the tour can often give you information on any events taking place in the city that night.

You may even find that you get invited to meet up with people later on in the evening. To help you navigate approaching and speaking to women in an evening scenario I have designed the below infographic. You can also read my how to approach a girl at a bar step-by-step guide.

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The best places to meet loads of women?

The best place to meet loads of women is to pay a visit to the various vintage markets in a city.

These are always bustling and draw in lots of locals as well as visitors from around the world.

In fact, the markets in London are a great location to meet women of different nationalities all year round.

City markets

One of my favourites is Spitalfields Market. It has all manner of food, clothing and other odds and ends.

It is a covered market, so a great place to go and meet women when it is raining.

Another great market is Camden Market, which is a sizable market that has a lot of foot traffic. The food there is exceptional, particularly its designated outdoor food court that serves food from all around the world.

Food markets

Indeed, food markets offer another great opportunity to meet women. On weekends, especially on Sundays, is seemingly when everyone convenes at the food markets.

For example, Brick Lane Market is a popular trendy market that draws in groups of women.

In my experience weekend food markets are:

  • Bustling and sociable places
  • Ideal opportunities to meet women
  • A great way to spend your weekend

So look up what is going on at the weekend in your resident city or the city that you are going to visit. You can then begin to plan your weekend around this as these events offer various opportunities to meet women during the day.

Blueprint to meet women

This is a blueprint that you can use anywhere in the world to meet different women.

Now you know where to meet single women, the next steps entail having the ability to start conversations, flirt with women, connect in conversation and go on some dates.

This is where I can help. To find out more about Social Attraction coaching visit the live training page or sign up for my newsletter below.

Model looking at camera with three ways to approach and meet attractive women


  • Top Instagram Photo Spots. Look up the top Instagram locations for any city, then plan your day going and having photos taken there. There will be a multitude of different women there that you can start conversations with.
  • Art Galleries. They attract tourists from all over the world and you will find areas in the building where you can meet and start conversations with women. You can also build up your conversation ammunition by taking a gallery tour – great for relaying information to the women that you meet.
  • Museums. Another great place to meet women from different nationalities and improve your conversation ammunition.
  • City Tours. Walking and bus tours offer great opportunities to meet women and learn about the city’s history and culture. This also makes a great date location to take a girl with yourself acting as the tour guide; being articulate and knowledgeable conveys attractive qualities.
  • Vintage, Arts And Food Markets. These are bustling locations filled with people who are in a good mood and who tend to linger in the area. This makes it easy to be sociable and engage women in conversation.

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