Eye Contact Attraction Building Techniques | Top Three Principles

Eye Contact Attraction Building Techniques | Top Three Principles

Eye Contact Attraction Building Techniques | Top Three Principles

Eye Contact Attraction Building Techniques | Top Three Principles

Eye Contact Attraction Building Techniques | Top Three Principles

Written by Gary Gunn - Founder of Social Attraction

Building attraction with women with our eyes is often an area, which is completely overlooked. Most of us, most of the time when we’re looking for dating advice are looking at what to say, how to hold ourselves, the best way of exchanging details.

Yet with eye contact, there are certainly some effective ways in which we can start to build attraction and also a connection with women. So first of all, I think it’s important we understand a few keys to eye contact because that will enable us to really know what we’re doing when we’re talking to women.

So first of all, if we first get eye contact with a girl, and she looks down, then this is generally a sign that she might be attracted to us. If she looks up and away, it’s generally a sign that she’s not into us. And finally, if she looks to the side it’s a sign she may or may not be attracted to us. So that’s the first step in understanding a woman’s eye contact.


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The other thing that I’d like to add is that when you first get eye contact with women if their first response is an energetic response, and what I mean by that is that they stand up straight, or they touch their hair, touching hair has a really good indicator. That’s really a sign that they are biologically attracted to you in that situation.


Over the years of coaching people in real-life situations all over Europe, different countries have different dating rituals and what I mean by that is that in some countries they expect people to go on a first date over dinner, and other countries you can be way more relaxed about how you go about dating. But there’s one common denominator and that is eye contact with a hair play. What I found over the years is that when you first get eye contact with someone, it doesn’t matter where you are, if their first response is energising, and they play with their hair, it’s typically a sign that they’re attracted to you.

And if you think about this logically, it kind of makes sense because what’s our first response when we see an attractive girl? Our body’s energised, some of us nudge our friend next to us and say, “Have you seen that attractive girl over there?” But there’s a biological response in us that energises us and women feel exactly the same.

And it’s just a case of understanding the biological responses to give us confidence in starting a conversation. Because if you realise now that every time that you get eye contact with a girl for the first time she plays with her hair, it’s really a go-ahead signal that she wants you to go and talk to her. Just this knowledge will give you more confidence in starting more conversations with women.


So now we’ve got the first steps understood. I’m just going to give you three different eye contact attraction building techniques that you can use in the real world.


Now the first one is when we first get eye contact with women, we want to hold eye contact with them until they look away first. Now, the reason for this is that it’s been scientifically proven that the longer you hold eye contact with someone, the more oxytocins release, the more other chemicals are released, which are linked with the feeling of being attracted to someone.

If you want to supercharge this technique, something else that you can do when you’re holding eye contact with women is just to lift your chin up slightly so that you’re almost gazing down at the girl when you’re speaking to her. This is the body language and eye contact of someone who is extremely confident and successful in dating.

Now the second eye contact attraction building technique is when we flick our attention or our gaze between her eyes and her mouth. Now the reason for this, first of all, is that it allows us not to feel too intimidated when we’re talking to attractive women because often it can be really easy to just look away, look down, not pay attention to the girl when we’re speaking to her.


So what we found is that if you can flip between her left eye to her right eye down to her mouth, you’re creating a triangle with your gaze.


What this does, it allows you to hold a deep eye contact connection with her, but it also allows you to start building tension by holding permanent eye contact. And the more tension that you can create with your eye contact, the more that you’re going to start building attraction with the girl that you’re speaking to.

Now, the final eye contact attraction building technique is an advanced technique yet if you remember what I said earlier on in this episode, when we first get eye contact with a girl and she looks up and away, it is a sign that she is not attracted to us. So what we can do is we can backwards engineer the same process and when we’re talking with extremely attractive women who most of the time most guys look down and away because they’re intimidated by them.


If we can replicate the eye contact technique of looking up and away, you’re actively showing disinterest and this is an extremely powerful biological signal that you’re giving someone.


Because what you’re really saying is that, “I am not attracted to you.” And when you are exhibiting this type of behaviour around attractive women, around people that are used to having people acting submissive around them, it is an extremely powerful technique that you can use.

So I hope you have enjoyed the three techniques I’ll just go over them one more time. So technique number one is when you hold deep eye contact with women until they look away first. Technique number two is when you flick your attention between her left eye to her right eye to her mouth, and you form a triangle, and you keep flicking between them. And the third technique is when we deliberately look up and away as a sign of disinterest.

Now what I’d advise that you do is just go and try some of these because at the moment everyone could have better and more positive eye contact. So if you haven’t tried one of these principles, then please go away try it and just see whether you can generate better responses from people. They’re also extremely powerful in any area of your life they’re not just related to meeting women, having more confident and more attractive body language and eye contact is attractive to everyone that you meet.

 


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