How To Attract Women – The Dominance Of A Downward Emotional Spike
On our dating coach courses we teach that our aim and objective of attracting women is to take them away from a flat line (a boring conversation with no emotional response) and to generate some instant chemistry.
Over time, I have found that flirting in a playful manner is a sure way to spark a downward emotional spike which, in turn, will ignite her feelings of attraction towards us.
How To Attract Women #1: Flirting
One fantastic example of how to attract women is when we are next in a café, to ask the waitress which out of two baguettes she would recommend. Once she gives us her opinion, we simply decide to go directly against her:
Us – “Which baguette would you suggest, the chicken one or the tuna one?”
Her – “The chicken one is much better.”
Us – “Ok cool, I’ll have the tuna one.”
By actively going against what she has suggested we will take her away from the flat line (by being fun and unique) and spark a downward emotional spike.
How To Attract Women #2: Asking Challenging Questions
Next time we find ourselves having a flat line conversation with a girl, we can instantly harness the power of a challenging question. On our pick up artist courses we demonstrate that a fantastic example of this is by asking her:
“Why do you always have to take the fun out of everything?”
Provocative questions like these are likely to take the girl by surprise and immediately move her off the flat line but, more importantly, energise us out of the friend zone.
How To Attract Women #3: By Saying No
When we are out in social environments meeting new women, we will often be asked the same types of questions time and again. I have found it pertinent to answer specific types of questions in a specific type of way to illuminate our value in the interaction.
So here are a few examples:
“Can you buy me a drink?”…NO
“Can you hold my drink?” … NO
“Can you wait here until I come back?” …NO
One crucial point to be aware of is that by giving women too many downward emotional spikes, it can make us come across as rude and obnoxious. Significantly, when we know how to get the blend just right we tend to find that our approach anxiety is severely reduced when we are faced with the prospect of approaching new women.
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