How To Exchange Numbers – The Surprising Truth

How To Exchange Numbers – The Surprising Truth

Written by the Social Attraction Team

Over time, I’ve come to recognise that a lot of us really struggle with an appropriate method to exchange phone numbers with a girl that we are conversing with.

In fact this is a common question which is often raised by many of our clients attending our pua training courses.

After some refining, here are the three main ways that we’ve found lead to a natural exchange of numbers with a girl that we have just met.

How To Exchange Numbers #1: Positive Mental Attitude

I have observed that the critical factor when asking for her number is about having the belief that she will say yes.

We explain on our pick up artist courses that when we have belief in ourselves our body language, eye contact and vocal tonality will reflect confidence and positivity; and as a result she is likely to feel more relaxed around us.

In a nutshell, the more relaxed we are in the moment, almost like it’s no big deal, then the more relaxed she is going to feel exchanging information.

How To Exchange Numbers #2: It’s Not About Her Number

If we like her and want to see her again, we should be more focused on setting up a time and place to see each other again. The act of exchanging phone numbers should simply be viewed as a way of keeping in touch.

From my experience the easiest way to have good pua text game is by inviting her along to something that we are already doing. This could be an art exhibition, an open mic night or drinks with friends for example.

By suggesting for her to come along to something we already have planned, in effect, will help take the pressure off because it’s not a formal ‘date’ which may appear daunting to her.

How To Exchange Numbers #3: A Different Angle

We explain on our daygame courses that there are hundreds of other reasons why we might want to ask for the phone number of a girl we like.

This could range from texting her the picture that our friend just took of us together, forwarding her link to the foreign film we watched recently or letting her know which club we end up in later.  By exchanging details in this way, it feels more relaxed and nonchalant which is the intention.

In summary, I would rather exchange numbers with one girl who I have arranged a reason to see again, as opposed to simply taking ten girls’ numbers with nothing planned to do together.

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How To Exchange Numbers – The Surprising Truth

How To Exchange Numbers – The Surprising Truth

Written by the Social Attraction Team

Over time, I’ve come to recognise that a lot of us really struggle with an appropriate method to exchange phone numbers with a girl that we are conversing with.

In fact this is a common question which is often raised by many of our clients attending our pua training courses.

After some refining, here are the three main ways that we’ve found lead to a natural exchange of numbers with a girl that we have just met.

How To Exchange Numbers #1: Positive Mental Attitude

I have observed that the critical factor when asking for her number is about having the belief that she will say yes.

We explain on our pick up artist courses that when we have belief in ourselves our body language, eye contact and vocal tonality will reflect confidence and positivity; and as a result she is likely to feel more relaxed around us.

In a nutshell, the more relaxed we are in the moment, almost like it’s no big deal, then the more relaxed she is going to feel exchanging information.

How To Exchange Numbers #2: It’s Not About Her Number

If we like her and want to see her again, we should be more focused on setting up a time and place to see each other again. The act of exchanging phone numbers should simply be viewed as a way of keeping in touch.

From my experience the easiest way to have good pua text game is by inviting her along to something that we are already doing. This could be an art exhibition, an open mic night or drinks with friends for example.

By suggesting for her to come along to something we already have planned, in effect, will help take the pressure off because it’s not a formal ‘date’ which may appear daunting to her.

How To Exchange Numbers #3: A Different Angle

We explain on our daygame courses that there are hundreds of other reasons why we might want to ask for the phone number of a girl we like.

This could range from texting her the picture that our friend just took of us together, forwarding her link to the foreign film we watched recently or letting her know which club we end up in later.  By exchanging details in this way, it feels more relaxed and nonchalant which is the intention.

In summary, I would rather exchange numbers with one girl who I have arranged a reason to see again, as opposed to simply taking ten girls’ numbers with nothing planned to do together.

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