How To Tease A Girl | 11 New Ways To Sexually Flirt With Women
In this article, you will learn everything you need to know about how to tease a girl. I will be going through eleven techniques that I have been teaching over the past decade on my dating confidence courses for men.
- Eleven examples of how to tease women (that work)
- A story about one of my clients using a technique (that leads to a kiss)
- How to sexually tease in any social setting (must read)
Is teasing flirting?
Above all, teasing is one of the best ways that you can flirt with women. The reason why teasing is flirty is that it adds depth to your relationship with women.
Being playful has the effect of bringing you closer to a girl whilst also keeping the interaction light-hearted. It can be a great way to showcase sexual interest to a girl.
Likewise, it can also help you recognise when a woman is sexually interested in you.
Equally important, teasing has the result of allowing women to relax more in your presence, share intimate jokes together, and build the first foundations of sexual chemistry.
When you tease a girl in the right way she may start to flirt back with you. Consequently, I have created the following infographic as a guide to know when a woman is flirting with you. You can also read my signs she’s flirting with you article.
How to tease a girl in a flirty way?
The best way to tease a girl in a flirty way is to be deliberately playful and lighthearted with her in conversation. Therefore, this means staying away from boring and serious conversation topics.
Here are three immediate ways to be more playful, fun and flirty around women you have just met.
A flirty nickname
Giving a girl a fun nickname is one of the easiest ways of teasing her in conversation.
Here are a few examples:
- “Girl from (add the town she is from)” as opposed to her real name
- If her name is “Stacey” call her “Tracey”
Nicknames nostalgically remind us of being back at school and tend to develop a fun dynamic with women.
A teasing accusation
In my experience, women do not like to make it overtly obvious that they like someone. Therefore accusing a girl of hitting on you usually elicits an immediate reaction from most women.
Consequently, we can use this to be playful with her in dialogue.
Here are two examples:
- “Don’t look at me with your seductive eyes”
- “You are just saying that to impress me”
Anytime you can accuse a girl of making a move on you is a great way to tease her in conversation.
A playful statement
If you can make a fun statement to a girl about her behaviour, insinuating that she is boring, it tends to induce a playful vibe.
Here are some examples:
- “You are staying in on Friday …yawn”
- “Wow, who would have known you were this boring on a night out”
Indeed, teasing a girl in a flirty manner like this infers a sexual element to your interactions.
Below you will find an image from a dating confidence course that I hosted focussing on how to flirt with women using reflections. This will give you further fun flirting techniques to use.
What to tease a girl about?
When you are teasing a girl it is preferable to tease her about her thoughts or her actions.
Remember a tease is a fun and playful way to be flirty with women. Therefore, you should not get personal and mention anything that she may feel insecure about, such as her weight, her hair, or her make-up for instance.
Outlined below are some key examples of how to tease a girl in the right manner.
Teasing her thoughts
When you are teasing a girl’s thought it can add a fun and dynamic aspect to the interaction.
Here are some great ways to poke fun at a girl’s thoughts:
- “You are 29 years old and did not know that”
- “You have an interesting way of thinking about that”
Teasing her actions
The best way to tease a girl’s actions is to be playful about how she conducts herself around you.
Here are a few ways that you can tease a girl’s actions:
- “You are standing very close to me – bit keen”
- “Following me around all night is a bit desperate”
The key to successfully teasing a girl’s actions is to construct the playfulness around her chasing after you and following you around.
I have created the following infographic to teach you more ways to tease and flirt with women when you first meet them. You can also read my how to flirt with women article to learn more about how to use each one.
The best teasing examples are the ones that you can implement with immediate effect.
Mimicking her or misinterpreting her are two ways that you can tease a girl with little chance of getting it wrong.
Here are some examples:
Mimicking a girl’s voice in a fun and lighthearted way is a great way to playfully poke fun at her and also initiate flirting with her in conversation.
This can be repeating back what she has said in a funny tone or copying her body language in an accentuated way.
Misinterpretations are some of the best ways to tease a girl. You simply take what she says and then you repeat it back to her deliberately misinterpreting what she has just said to you.
For extra effect, you can misinterpret what she is saying like she is hitting on you all of the time.
Below is an image from one of my dating confidence courses where I demonstrate how to tease women by misinterpreting them on purpose. This specific technique is called ‘The Opposite and Exaggerate’ and is a 3-minute clip.
Adding a flirty element when you are teasing a girl is a great way to sexually elevate your relationship.
The best way on which you can do this is by suggesting that everything that she is doing is aimed at getting your attention or that she is trying to flirt with you sexually.
Here are my three favourite ways to flirt and tease a girl simultaneously:
Tease her outfit
You can suggest that she is wearing her outfit on purpose to try and sexually provoke you.
Here are a few ways to do this:
- “Oh, so you are wearing leggings today to try and get my attention then”
- “High heels for afternoon cocktails… seems like you are trying to get my attention”
The point is that you are inferring that she is trying to hit on you and anything that she does can be misinterpreted in this manner.
Tease her body language
You can mention that she is sitting in a certain way to try and get your attention.
Here are two examples:
- “You are sitting closer to me than most people usually do – bit keen”
- “Do not try and look at me with that seductive eye contact – calm down”
In my experience telling a girl to ‘calm down’ often creates a fun vibe and adds energy into the interaction.
Tease her conversation
Drawing attention to a girl’s conversation topic is a fantastic way to tease her in conversation.
Here are a couple of ways:
- “You are just bringing up travelling to try and get me to go with you”
- “Speaking about making food is not going to get me to come over for dinner “
When you make these types of teasing statements the aim is to make it obvious that you are flirting with her.
Playfully teasing a girl you have just met is one element to flirting, and I know that for many of my clients it can be difficult to keep a conversation flowing after the first few minutes.
This is why I have created the following infographic that will help you prolong your conversations with women. I suggest you also reading my how to carry on a conversation with women article.
The best tease with a girl is to challenge her to be more exciting or more adventurous. In fact, when you do this, often you will open up a Pandora’s Box of energy into the interaction.
This reminds me of when I was coaching a particular client of mine a few years ago – a highly energetic 22-year old who loved going on a night out and meeting women. Together we went to a few countries, a few bar crawls, and spoke to many different girls where he used the following technique to perfection.
The idea is simple: During an interaction with a girl that you like, all you have to do is to ask her:
- “Are you adventurous?”
What girl on a night out partying is ever going to say “no” to this question? By answering “yes” a girl is allowing you to follow up with a powerful question:
- “What can we do right now that would be adventurous?”
As you can imagine this type of question is going to generate some fun answers. Indeed, I have personally witnessed some of the following:
- “We could kiss”
- “Let’s do shots”
- “Let’s go dance”
This kind of response from a woman indicates that she likes you and is willing to invest more time together. Take a moment here to think how much time this one technique I teach on my dating confidence courses could save you.
By the way, if you do not get the desired response from a girl, then you can make one more power statement:
- “You just said you are adventurous… give me something more exciting”
This notoriously led to the “we could kiss” response my client was looking for in most of his interactions.
As per the image below, we can teach you how to attract women in bars and clubs. To find out more about our coaching then you can visit our live training page.
How to tease a girl sexually?
The principal way to tease a girl sexually is to create conflict in your interaction. In effect, this means disagreeing with her, saying no on purpose, and valuing your time.
Above all, remember the aim is to create some sexual tension when you are teasing a girl sexually.
Below are three ways to tease a girl sexually:
Sexual teasing by disagreeing
Most men most of the time tend to look for ways to agree with what a girl is saying in conversation. This is because many of us place an attractive woman on a pedestal and, as a result, fall into acting submissively around her.
By disagreeing with a girl you are showcasing that you value yourself and are not afraid of conflict with her in conversation. This has the effect of creating sexual tension with women.
The best way to go about disagreeing with a girl is to simply say “I do not agree with that” when she offers an opinion that you do not agree with.
Then all you have to do is pause, hold eye contact, and subsequently wait for her to speak next. Indeed, when I train my clients on this technique, the most important element is to pause and wait for the girl to speak first.
Sexual teasing by saying no
Saying no is a great way to create sexual tension with women. All you have to do is say no when a girl asks you to do something for her.
This could be her request for you to buy her a drink, hold her bag, or even dance with her on a night out.
In truth, the main point of saying no is to highlight that you are not afraid of conflict with her by setting a personal boundary.
Sexual teasing by valuing your time
Being a slave to your watch when you are interacting with women is also a great way to create some sexual tension. So when you are speaking to a girl a quick glance at your watch, checking the time on occasion, and saying that you have to go soon are great principles.
In my experience, the reason for this is scarcity. If a girl knows that her time with you is limited then she is going to invest more into your interaction.
In sum, teasing women in conversation is fun, especially by creating lighthearted conflict.
Take a look at my infographic guide below to find out other ways to enhance your conversations with women. You can also read my how to speak to women article.
- Give her a nickname
- Accuse her of hitting on you
- Mention that she is boring
- Challenge her to be more exciting
- Mimic her with a fun tone
- Misinterpret what she says
- Tease her body language as being sexual
- Actively disagree with a girl
- Say “no” to a girl to create tension
- Use sexual innuendos
- Build sexual anticipation
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