How To Make Meeting Women More Fun In Three Easy Steps
The last time I checked, learning how to attract women should be an enjoyable experience, however more often than not we seem to put too much pressure on ourselves to “get it right” and all of a sudden everything seems to gets a little bit too serious.
Over time, I have found that the more relaxed and fun we are feeling, the better our interactions seem to flow. This is of course easier said than done; however, time and again I have discovered the follow three principles help tremendously.
How To Make Meeting Women More Fun #1: Make Her Day
We teach on our daygame courses that rather than focusing on ourselves and what we want to get out of an interaction with a woman, we can help relieve the pressure by focusing on what we can give to her instead. Just by giving a girl a compliment we can make her smile and feel amazing.
Over the years, I have had countless women thank me for stopping them and told me that I have made their day which is priceless. It then makes me feel great as a result, making our next approach a lot easier, fun and relaxed.
How To Make Meeting Women More Fun #2: Fun Challenges
Fun challenges keep us away from our internal thoughts and to be more present because we are focused purely on completing the challenge, especially when we have a time limit. By pushing our boundaries the challenges also help us to remember that talking to women is no big deal.
I have had some of the best times playing challenges on pua training weekends especially when they are really difficult or potentially embarrassing. My personal favourites are singing “stop in the name of love” as loudly as possible to a girl or immediately getting down on one knee to propose marriage.
After doing these challenges, any anxiety of approaching women completely vanishes and they often result in great interactions with loads of energy. Whatever happens, they always make us smile and laugh which is the whole point!
How To Make Meeting Women More Fun #3: Focus On Something Else
If we are going out specifically to meet women it can be easy to think about the prospect too much, often projecting negative outcomes which uses up a lot of emotional energy. Also, if it’s not going to plan we can beat ourselves up for not being good enough which then causes us to feel stressed and unhappy and makes our approach anxiety even worse.
From my experience I have found that it is much better to be doing something else but be prepared to approach women should the opportunity arise. For example, we could be going into town to buy a pair of jeans or meet a friend for coffee and then, if we see a woman we want to talk to we’ll be in a better frame of mind to approach her.
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