Pick Up Artist Training Course | Everything You Need To Know

Pick Up Artist Training Course | Everything You Need To Know

Written by dating coach for men Gary Gunn - Founder of Social Attraction

In this article, I am going to evaluate the ethos of the ‘pick up artist training course’.

Let us take a moment to consider who you think is more attractive to women?

  • The pick up artist in bars and nightclubs trying to attract women
  • The real artist who is creatively giving back to the world

If the answer is not obvious to you then you need to read this article. Importantly, save it to your phone and read it every day for the next 90-days.

The information in this exposé will save you over 10, 000 hours in your dating life chasing women to be left with next to nothing at the end of your journey.

How do I know this?

Because I have seen it play out in life enough times.

The truth about pick up artist training courses

My name is Gary Gunn and over the past decade, I have hosted 500 dating courses in ten major cities in the UK and fifteen different countries in Europe.

Educating men on how to create their ideal lifestyle and date the woman of their dreams.

I have also written and published a best-selling book titled “An Education in (Online) Dating”.

In this feature, you will:

  • Receive the truth about pick up artist courses
  • Be shown how to follow the right path to become attractive to women
  • Learn how to take immediate steps to become more confident as a man

Pick up artist training courses vs dating coaches

The main difference between a pick up artist and being attractive to women lies in the distinction between ‘taking value’ and ‘offering value’ in your life.

Pick up artists are concerned with getting the following:

  • The next girl’s number
  • Date after date
  • Learning the next pick up artist technique refined for their next approach

In a nutshell, pick up artists chase women.

When we are chasing anything in our lives, we subsequently give the power of the negotiation to the other party as they have what we want.

Combine this with the amount of false dating advice available online. In short, we find ourselves in a situation where good men wanting to gain confidence in their dating lives have nowhere to turn to increase their dating confidence.

Furthermore, here is what happens when we have a ‘chasing women’ mindset:

  • Waiting for women to text us back. Just count up the hours you have given to waiting for women to reply to your messages.
  • We are cancelled on all the time. Because we are trying too hard to organise dates with women who were never attracted to us in the first place.
  • Spending most of our lives learning new ways to get women to become more engaged in conversation.
  • We get rejected all the time which pick up artists will tell you is ‘all part of the process.’ When you finally stop chasing women you will realise this is not true.

To be blunt, when you adopt the mindset of chasing women, you inevitably end up manipulating situations and circumstances to serve your own needs.

It is like watching a dog trying to chase its own tail

To highlight, here are some of the ways that men try to manipulate situations with women to serve their needs:

  • Lying about your job to sound better and impress women.
  • Being untruthful about your financial situation. Spending too much money on dates trying to impress women.
  • Lying about your social standing in the world to appear more socially important to try to impress women.
  • Being deceptive about anything to impress women!

If you have, or currently find yourself, manipulating situations by lying to women, it is because you are focussing on the wrong objective.

However, the good news is that there is a much easier way of learning to become attractive and confident around women and it comes from giving value in the world.

The law of giving more than you wish to receive

Dating confidence courses for men

We teach on our live training courses, that the way to turn the negotiation in our favour, is to have more to offer than that which you wish to receive.

When we do this, we turn any negotiation in our favour. Instead, we move from a mindset of chasing to a philosophy of creating.

What do I mean by a philosophy of creating?

Let’s start with a blank canvas and assume that you are useless in every aspect of dating.

In my experience, there are stages that you go through in your journey to becoming a complete success in your dating life.

It ends with creativity as we shall see:

  • We learn how to dress to suit our own style.
  • Learning how to start a conversation with women.
  • We learn how to flirt with women.
  • Learning how to hold attractive eye contact with women.
  • We learn how to connect with women.

Once we have learned all of these communication skills we will develop a certain level of self-confidence and success with women.

And for anyone here who is interested in improving their conversations with women I include my infographic below. I also encourage you to read my how to speak to women article where I go into more detail.

5 conversational techniques that will make her remember you

Simplifying the dating process

Yet, as with life and ambitions, there is always a level deeper.

Once we have stayed at this level for some time where we can engage women in conversation and organise dates, all of a sudden we notice the amount of time that we are giving to our dating life.

As a result, we will want to simplify the process.

This is where we move on to the creative plane which will ultimately move you to become a success in dating, mating and life.

To clarify, here are the next stages that we take clients through to support them in accessing the next part of their life.

  • Launch something creative. A blog, a podcast, a YouTube channel. You can even try all three and see which one works best for you.
  • Your mind switches its focus from chasing women to creating assets and resources in your life.
  • The more you self-express the more at ease you feel.

In short, you will embody the traits of an attractive man, as depicted by my infographic below. I have also written a related article on this called dating tips for men which will help you.

9 psychological techniques that attractive men use around women

Creativity and being attractive to women

As a consequence, here is what happens when we have a creative mindset:

  • Never waiting for women to text us back. Because we are too busy focussing on our life goals and working on our creative endeavours.
  • Never getting cancelled on. Because we only agree to meet women who are mutually interested in going on a date together.
  • Spending most of our lives learning new skills because that makes us a more successful human being.
  • We hardly ever get rejected because are contented with our life choices and decisions.
  • We only give away our time to people who can add to the quality of our life.

Becoming an influencer

To be succinct, when you adopt the mindset of creating value in your life, you become an influencer and here are a few things that happen:

  • Women become more interested in the creative areas of your life. They start paying you more attention and asking you more questions.
  • Women will come and hit on you because you will be emanating a more powerful and centred energy.
  • You already have social standing with the people that matter most – yourself!
  • You never lie as you do not seek women’s or anyone else’s approval in life.

Once women start to enter into your life, you can then move into the next phase of intimacy – namely demonstrating empathy.

As per the image below we can train you in how to connect with women.

To find out more about our tuition then you can visit our live training page.

Model with a light behind her and three ways to connect in conversation

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