Putting A Value On Ourselves – The Key To Magnetism
One question which I am posed a lot during our training weekends is whether we can learn how to get a girl to like you in a range of different situations and circumstances. In a nutshell many of us want to have the ability to seduce any women at any time during the day or evening.
In reality if we are asking these types of questions then in my experience we are always doomed to fail with meeting and attracting our ideal partner.
Over time we’ve come to recognise that on the outside a girl may be exceptionally beautiful, but in reality we may be on completely different wavelengths after a few minutes of conversation.
Putting A Value On Ourselves #1: Our State
In truth when many of us see an attractive girl, in our desperation to learn how to talk to girls we tend to try everything to make a good impression on her and to indeed attract her, regardless of her personality.
Over time, I have seen so much wasted energy and effort watching men all over Europe trying to have a interaction with a girl, who is quite clearly not interested.
What I have come to recognise is that if a girl isn’t receptive to our initial approach, then we should simply walk away and leave the interaction.
Putting A Value On Ourselves #2: Our Value
If we have the mindset of not being too invested in the conversation, time and again I have found that we naturally come across as much more confident. This especially rings true when we are learning how to kiss a girl for the very first time.
Whether it’s in the tonality of our voice, the vigour of our body language, or the way that we hold eye contact, we are communicating a significant amount of self worth.
There have been many occasions on our weekend courses, where clients of ours have walked away from interactions, to have the women re-engage them later on in the evening.
Putting A Value On Ourselves #3: Our Standards
One point to recognise is that there is a big difference between leaving an interaction too soon because of a lack of confidence, and leaving because one of our standards has not been met.
When we are learning how to start a conversation with a girl I’ve certainly found that being clear about what behaviour is acceptable as part of my social etiquette serves to keep my values high, but also know when it’s time to move on from an interaction.
In a nutshell if we put a value on ourselves when we are conversing with women, while maintaining standards of what is acceptable, then we will cultivate more energy, value and attraction.
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