Signs A Woman Is Into You | A Simple & Easy To Follow Guide

Signs A Woman Is Into You | A Simple & Easy To Follow Guide

Written by dating coach for men Gary Gunn - Founder of Social Attraction

So what are the most obvious signs a woman is into you?

Because most of the time when most of us are talking to attractive women, we can often feel anxious.

In this article, I will show you three cast-iron signals that women typically give you to show that they are interested in continuing a conversation and getting to know you.

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Her hair playing

The first one is when a girl plays with her hair.

Now, typically, if a girl is playing with her hair, it is because she has adrenaline in her system because her body feels energised.

She is investing more into the conversation with you. Hair playing is a way that women can get rid of some of their anxiety in a seductive way.

When you walk down the street, and if you are dressed well and you look good, you will notice when girls glance at you.

If they immediately play with their hair, it is a sign that they are into you.

Her body language

The second sign a woman is into you is with her body language. Specifically via the way a girl’s legs are crossed. If they are crossed away from you, she is putting up a barrier from speaking to you.

What you may find during the course of a conversation is she may change her legs so that they cross towards you. This indicates that she is into you at that moment.

For this reason, make sure that you pay attention to the way that her legs are crossed when you are both sat down. That will also give you the confidence to continue a conversation.

If she crosses her legs away from you, you can backwards rationalise what you were talking about. What you have perhaps said may have put her off. This is another key sign of understanding whether a woman is into you or not.

Her presence

Now, the third sign a woman is into is very simple – does she remain there in conversation with you. Now, over the years, many of my clients have said:

“Oh, I didn’t know that she was into me. I didn’t know that she liked me.”

Most women will excuse themselves from a conversation if they are not interested in speaking to you.

Therefore if she is still talking to you and evidently happy to continue a conversation, then chances are there is a level of attraction.

Crossing her legs towards you

One cast-iron sign that a girl is onto you is when she is standing up with her legs crossed towards you.

That is a sign that she is into you because she does not want to move away quickly. In contrast, if her legs are pointing away from you, she is leaving it easy for herself to leave quickly if she wants to.

This, along with hair-playing, are two really good signs that a girl is into you at that moment.

In this article, I have given you some cast iron ways of knowing when girls are into you. This will increase your confidence and allow you to relax more when you are in dialogue with women.


Written by Gary Gunn

Gary Gunn is the bestselling author of An Education In (Online) Dating.

He has hosted over 1000 dating confidence courses in the UK and Europe, as well as over 1,500 courses conducted online.

Moreover, he is the head coach at Social Attraction and leads the team, training and courses.
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