Stealth Attraction: Subtle Principles to Win Her Over
Thanks to modern technology, the dating world has evolved immensely. So much of how people connect nowadays is about what they say on a dating app or what emoji they use during a text conversation.
These virtual forms of communication can seem much more important than interacting with someone in a real, physical setting. Many people forget the subtle principles of dating and the rules of stealth attraction.
What exactly are these rules? How can you use them if you’re interested in a girl at the bar or the woman you just ran into at the coffee shop?
Read on to learn about these techniques and discover how you can implement them in your common, day-to-day life.
What Are Stealth Attraction Techniques?
The name “stealth attraction” should shed some light on what exactly these techniques are.
These are not grand, romantic gestures or loud, obnoxious ways to draw attention to yourself. They’re tips on how to flirt and engage with women in subtle ways.
These techniques are small and understated, but they can help men in major ways when it comes to pursuing women. They might seem like simple suggestions but can have a big impact.
Learn how you can create a more successful dating situation for yourself by following each specific technique below.
One-On-One Interaction in a Quiet Area
If you meet a woman in a loud place like a bar or a club, it’s easy to get distracted. Loud music, dark lighting, and people dancing can make it difficult to keep a good conversation going.
That’s why you want to find a quiet area to have a one-on-one interaction with a woman. With minimal noise and fewer people around, the two of you will have a more intimate setting to get to know each other.
How do you get into a one-on-one situation like this? It’s pretty easy.
Saying something as simple as, “Let’s head over here so I can hear you better.”
Just keep whatever you say to her short and direct. Don’t try to come up with any kind of crazy excuses.
What is the one thing that all women are universally attracted to? Confidence.
Not surprisingly, the ability to make eye contact is has been linked to a person’s confidence.
When you are in a one-on-one situation with a woman, she should be the only person in the room you are looking at. Not the floor or the entrance to the bar. Her and only her.
It’s also important to remember that people can read emotions just from looking into somebody’s eyes. A woman will be able to tell what you’re feeling. Show her you are interested by keeping eye contact.
Speak Lowly and Slowly
Listening is essential in order to keep anyone woman interested. When it is your turn to talk, however, don’t rush through your words.
Take your time. Breathe. Speak slowly and clearly so that she can follow what you are saying.
It’s not about how much you say, but what you say. According to a study, it’s also about how you say it.
Research shows that both men and women use lower voices when talking to a member of the opposite of the sex that they are attracted to.
By having your voice at a lower register, you’re showing your attraction toward the woman you are talking to. Plus, if she’s also talking quietly, it’s an indication she’s attracted to you as well.
One of the most subtle but important components of stealth attraction is body language.
How men carry themselves in front of women says a lot about not only their confidence but about whether or not they are interested in what the members of the opposite sex are saying.
Men who are fidgety or close themselves off to the women they are talking to project an image of disinterest. They appear to these women as if they would rather be anywhere else in the world.
When it comes to body language, stick to more traditional flirting behaviors.
Lean in. Tilt your head. Keep your body open and your feet pointed at her.
Also, be sure to pay attention to her body language. If she isn’t reciprocating your movements, she’s probably not into you.
Lightly Touch Her Hands, Hips, or Hair
Is her body language indicating that she’s attracted to you? If so, turn things up a notch with some light touching.
Don’t be weird and pat her on the back like she’s a friend. Don’t harass her by trying to grab her butt or breast.
Light touching means holding her hand, grabbing her hip, or brushing her hair back.
These actions might seem minor, however, they play a significant role in letting a woman know that you’re attracted to her.
Placing your hand on her hip and brushing her hair back are particularly intimate moves because they indicate that a kiss could be coming next.
Kiss Her on the Cheek or Forehead
If the woman you are talking to seems to enjoy or encourage your light touching, take it one small step further. Try kissing her on the cheek or the forehead.
Be sure to do this in a playful way. Don’t put too much importance on it or take too long to do it.
Be quick and decisive. But also pay attention to how she reacts.
Her response to your kiss will clearly indicate if she wants you to kiss her on the lips.
If she reacts positively to these advances, you should feel confident enough to go in for the “big kiss” later in the night.
Have you tried any of these techniques out in the dating world? How have they worked for you?
Contact us and let us know which stealth attraction tactic you think is the best!
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