How To Get Success With Women – Deleting Girls’ Numbers
So I was hosting a daygame workshop alongside Gary Gunn last week and one really interesting point was made about what we do with girls’ numbers once we take them. It turns out that everyone in the room that day either didn’t have any girls’ numbers in their phone and therefore didn’t believe that they could get any numbers, or (and this includes me) they hoarded every girl’s number that they had ever taken.
What we found during our pick up artist workshop is that we tend to cling onto these numbers almost like they’re a trophy, in an attempt to remind ourselves that we’re good enough to get more in the future. We look through our previous messages looking at their photos and thinking of what success with women could I have had.
Success With Women #1: Clearing The Past
When we haven’t got any other options we think about sending them another text or we hope that maybe, just maybe, they’ll send us a message to re-establish contact. It’s like hanging onto old lottery tickets without checking the results in the hope that it could be a winner, this is fundamentally poor pua text game.
What we are really doing here is holding onto the past, living in old memories (good or bad) which is preventing us from moving forward with more success with women, and drawing on them like they’re a comfort blanket. So I decided to take the gamble and made the choice to delete every single girl’s number in my phone that I wasn’t in contact with and, despite it being rather cathartic, here is what I found.
Success With Women #2: Increased Confidence
You see, in effect, what we are really doing by deleting these numbers is not only letting go of the past, but showing faith in our own ability to go out there and meet new women, and I have to say the following few days I have had quite remarkable success with women.
Since I deleted all of the numbers on my phone my pua text game has improved dramatically. I’ve had a fresh desire and motivation to go out there and meet new people. Really I’ve had to, as I had no other choice other than to make it happen because every time I looked at my phone I felt like something was missing.
Success With Women #3: Moving Forward
What I now realise is that by holding onto all of these past numbers and memories I wasn’t leaving space to meet and attract new women into my life, and since I made this brave call (which I challenge you to do right now as you’re reading this) I’ve organised three new dates with three new women for the next three evenings.
So what are we all waiting for? Hit delete and take back control of our dating lives and start learning how to attract women that we really desire.
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